I was never a believer of the concept of soul mate; of destiny and fate until I watched this movie “Serendipity” where the protagonists play with destiny and they come to believe in it when they eventually meet again by fate.
I now believe there’s going to be a soul mate for each and every one of us in this world irrespective of the circumstances and the location. It’s just a matter of time. He/she may not be the best looking or most qualified guy/gal but that person is going to be the right one for you. Don’t expect that person to pop out at the earliest instead wait for destiny to take its toll.
You need not be impatient and take destiny into your own hands because the pattern has been pre-designed by god so just let it happen to you in your own time. The wait maybe longer than you expected sometimes but the reward would be worth it. God has created a soul mate for all of us and when destiny brings him/her to you, you will just know that person is your Mr/Ms Right.
This is where commitment comes into the picture. When you meet the right person you will want to spend the rest of your life with him/her. You would no longer fear commitment and the responsibilities and obligations that come along.
People sometimes confuse coincidence with destiny but meeting people when you have no common business is not accidental, neither coincidence but that’s called ‘fate’. There are incidents where “a beauty married a beast” and we tend to think that girl has no eye for looks but that’s not entirely true. We are only living a pattern that has been designed already by the almighty and not under our control.